A CURATED PACKING GUIDE FOR THE GLOBAL GUEST

Neither cottage-core nor Stepford wife, the art of dressing for up-scale up-state nuptials lies in the balance between traditionalism and whimsy. Like Caroline Bessette breathing new life into the classic cut Kennedy’s, you’re just looking to add a little cool-girl zhuzh to the convention and avoid the pearl clutching. A flouncy finesse with a CBK edge, waft in and out of the day’s affairs in halter-neck satin slips or bias-cut midi dresses that let your shoes take centre stage.

Florals may not necessarily be groundbreaking, but they are quintessentially country. Dial down the chintz and opt for a painterly take on the botanic vibe, pair with a peep-toe and a pearlescent clutch and you’ve nailed it. Fresh, feminine and fit for the country club.

The cool cousin of the Up-State Union, the Down Town Hall Hitch is a different kettle of fish altogether. Inherently cosmopolitan and contemporary, more concrete jungle, less country club, you can afford to go bolder with your guest attire. Stand out, or even lean into, the city’s creative chaos.

Swap the florals for more daring patterns, and don’t be afraid of a bit of drama - low backs, asymmetrical cuts, playful pantone combos. Channel your inner Bradshaw with the perfect Jimmy Choo slingback as you trot down the steps of the Town Hall. Accessorymaxx with obnoxiously large sunglasses, a fun freaky clutch, a statement necklace and an even bigger statement hat. Color clash with a yellow cab if you must. Let all notions of prim and proper slide away with the subway, the inner city won’t bat an eyelid.

The invitation may as well read ‘go big or go home’, because the Biarritz bash’s of the wedding world do not come to play. Luxurious, vibrant, with a healthy dose of French je ne sais quoi. Like many continental ceremonies before them, they require a certain sartorial elevation from their guests. Think old-school coastal glamour with a zeitgeisty twist, a touch of class without feeling stuffy.

Jewel tones won’t go amiss against the sweeping sunsets, and neither will layered chiffon gowns that have the delightful habit of catching the wind. Jewelry that feels flamboyant yet rooted in royalty. If you’re going to get the photo op, you may as well go all out.

Put those Dune references down and step away from the SATC2 Pinterest board slowly. The rolling hills of the Marrakesh desert deserve better from your ensemble. Yes, you might still want your camera ready moment, but you can stand out against the palette of pale yellow with more sophisticated aplomb. Opt for bright cobalt blues, deep burnt oranges, a moody mauve perhaps.

Hot, dry and with a penchant for a gust, it’s important to note that it’s not just the dunes you’ll have to contend with. Natural fabrics such as linen, silk, crisp cotton, will have you cool and collected. Light yet elegant coverups will be your friend under the blazing sun, and comfortable but opulent flats will see you well as you navigate the sandy terrain. Leave the falling (in love) to the happy couple.